choices in life

... tadi dapat nasihat free dari orang yang dah lame kahwin

there are two ways u want to choose your life now - 

(1) go back to dating again, get to know each other as a person - in & out every details.. then only decide to move up to marriage stage

(2) continue with current plan, get to know each other after marriage

*trust me, in actual fact, both of the choices is PAINFUL

you'll never know whether you really know everything about your partner until one of you is dead.. so..my best advice for you.. choose no (2). you once said you've thought deeply & you confidently said he is the one (dah cakap awal sangat nak kahwin tapi nak kahwin gak kan). so, stick with what you have decided... to resolve the situation now - slow talk with him, discuss with him.

*discuss

remember the word discuss. means you tell him what you want, you also want him to tell you what he want and align both of the requirement because neither of you can get what you want but both of your requirement can meet in the middle.. the best that both of you can tolerate.

*kalau tak boleh pergi therapy
*apa kata let it go.. start with fresh rules from now on.

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ha.. amek kau. menangis kat office pagi tadi. sebijik kena kut.

... orang lain plak pesan
manusia memang takkan puas. kite kene terima apa yang pasangan kita mampu buat and jangan duduk dalam bayang-bayang lepas lagi.