peristiwa

ternampak peristiwa yang tak best hari ni. ada family ni tengah makan - husband, wife and anak. tak pasti apa arguement yang terjadi. husband dia marah. husband dia bangun and panggil wife dia 'f****r' lepas tu macam nak walk away tapi patah balik and cakap 'u ni memang celaka, celaka, celaka'. tah berapa kali ulang tah sambil tuding jari kat muka wife dia. anak diorang tengah-tengah. kira husband dia tuding jari kat muka wife dia depan muka anak dia. terkejut. anak dia tengok wife dia nangis, nangis lah gak. anak mana boleh tengok mak nangis, sensitive kan. huhu. wife dia pregnant pulak tu. Allah. 

lepas tu, husband dia pun walk away. wife ni mengalir je air mata, sambil suap anak makan, sambil anak lap air mata mak dia. macam drama pun ada dah. sayup-sayup macam dengar anak tu cakap 'abah marah mama, huh' then anak dia cakap 'mama, no cry, shhh' gitu. innocent nya jiwa seorang budak. sedih situasi tu. semoga wanita itu tabah in her life. i am not sure i would be strong enough if i was her. ada nangis 3 hari, 3 malam tak berhenti. tak pun, tiba-tiba hati jadi keras and terus tak rasa apa-apa. entah. 

personally, i think parents should never swear in front of their kids. EVER. ini lagi lah, calling the mother of your child macam tu depan your child. it shows what kind of a person you are. yes, you may be angry or furious at that point of time, try to istighfar or just walk away if you know you are about to swear, lawan lah nafsu tu sikit. i lose my temper too sometimes, everybody does. there is a limit to everything. respect your child. you may not respect your wife or maybe you are having issues with her or maybe you are in the midst of separating/divorcing, who knows, but show your child what kind of man he should be or show what kind of man she should find when he/she grows up. just my point of view.